Trials & Tribulations; One Man's Journey to Get a Seat Aboard That Train!

Saiya is 3!!

By Paul at 6:02 am on Friday, December 13, 2013

Well I’m here, So I thought I’d show you an update on Saiya.

My Baby Saiya is now 3 years old and growing like a weed.


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By Paul at 5:43 am on Friday, December 13, 2013

HI!! Yes I’m Still around.. Just nothing to really talk about.. Unless I babble.. hmmmmm…??

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By Paul at 12:01 pm on Thursday, December 29, 2011

Well I thought I’d at least end the year off with a post.
I have been very busy with life in general, mostly with work and my baby girl Saiya.

So anyway I will “try” to find some time to make some posts and have some updates for the 1 or 2 that may indeed check in for a post here now and again..
remember I did say I’d “try”..

HAPPY NEW YEAR to all My family and friends.. and the 4 news feed readers I happen to have.. ty ūüôā

See you all in 2012..


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I’m a DADDY!!!!!

By Paul at 2:37 pm on Saturday, September 18, 2010

Sorry for the delay in the post..¬† but life has been not on my side till recently… Yes!!¬† I AM A DADDY!!

My wife Mira and I welcomed our Daughter Saiya Isha (Sigh-Ahh Eee-sha) Mudhar on Sunday Sept 5th 2010 at 3:56AM weighing 4045 Grams (8lbs 14 3/4oz) by C-Section.. She was 56cm (22 Inches) in length. We delivered at Richmond Hospital.


Was a CRAZY and WONDERFUL!! 4 days and 3 nights… Mira pushed and pushed til she could push no more but not without leaving baby Saiya all stressed out from the contractions and subsequent pushing… Doctors made a call for a C-Section.. With the wonderful technology advancements in medicine a very quick 15-20 minutes later Saiya entered the world.. and I watched it all from when the head was being pulled out.. brought tears to my eyes.. (am tearing up remembering that moment now in fact). Thank you to Richmond General Hospital and all the Birth Center Nurses for a Stressful Stay made very pleasant.. Daddy is doing well.. he had the least amount of sleep in the last 4 days 3 nights there changing Diapers, Swaddling Saiya, helping Mira with latching, so on and so on….. but is ready to do it all over again as soon as Mira is ready for baby #2,3,4,5…… ūüôā

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Week 16!!

By Paul at 2:14 pm on Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Wow so that’s 4 months done.¬† Mira is feeling great, other than the usual tiredness.¬† We finally had a Dating ultrasound checkup on March 9th and all is well, picture below,¬†dating is as it should be based on Mira’s LMP.¬† We go in for a more detailed ultrsound next month. So far so good, Mira has some more¬†Folic Acid to take daily plus the Materna¬ģ she takes.


“Your baby is now about the size of an avocado (about 5 inches / 11.6 centimetres long from crown to rump and weighing approximately 4 ounces / 100 grams). In the next three weeks he’ll go through a tremendous growth spurt, doubling his weight and adding inches to his length.” Read more here.

Next ultrasound will be exciting, we can find out if it’s a boy or a girl. Most of the family wants it to be a surprise, but I want to know¬†haha!!¬†¬†Mira wants to know now too I think. We will know what we want when the time comes, till then we are still coming up with boy and girl names. If you have any ideas leave a comment with your choice but remember, only names starting with S, P, K and M will be considered haha!!!

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Week 15!!

By Paul at 6:17 pm on Wednesday, March 3, 2010

4 inches and growing!!¬† Mira should be able to feel the baby in the next few weeks to come.¬† We have been busy trying to think of a name for our first born.¬† We have 4 letters to choose from “S, P, K, M”¬† for either a boy or girl any of those letters will do.¬† Personally I’d like my children to have a middle name too, so this is going to be fun coming up with two names per child.¬† We will deal with the first baby first HAHA!!

“You may be able to find out the sex of your baby by ultrasound now, since the external genitals may be developed enough that the ultrasound technician can tell you if you’re going to have a boy or a girl.” Read more here.

Hopefully there will be some ultrasound pictures to post next week. 
March 9th is coming quick.

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Week 14

By Paul at 12:43 pm on Wednesday, February 24, 2010

We are well into the second trimester now. Mira is feeling well has some uncomfortable days now and then, but mainly she stays active with cooking and doing things around the house. She is getting used to all the blood tests she has to have done, she is/was very afraid of needles, but now is not as afraid as she used to be while living in India. While there all her needles went into her bum, (other than for blood tests). So she was terrified of being able to see the needle before going into your arm. The nurse told her there are MANY more tests to happen in the coming months HAHA. Poor Mira..

“About now, the fetus can grasp, squint, frown, and grimace. It may even be able to suck its thumb. Researchers believe these and other movements probably correspond to the development of impulses in the brain.” Read more here.

Posts in March should be more exciting we have our ultrasound appointment set for the 9th.¬† We are looking forward to “seeing” our baby now *smile*.

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Week 13 The Second Trimester!!

By Paul at 12:00 pm on Wednesday, February 17, 2010

w00t!! Second Trimester and that little one is growing fast..¬† Grew a whole inch in the last week.¬† Mira is doing great, showing a baby bump and all (she’s too shy for a picture to be posted) she sleeps well and doesn’t seem to be having those sick days as before,¬†although she does “feel” like she will puke she hasn’t for quite a few days now.

“The fetus is now nearly 3 inches / 7 to 8 centimetres long from crown to rump and weighs nearly an ounce / 23 grams — about half a banana. Its unique fingerprints are already in place. And when you poke your stomach gently and she feels it, your baby will start rooting — that is, act as if she’s searching for a nipple.” More here.

All is well, we are looking forward to the Ultrasound appointment set for March 9th, should be exciting.

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Week 12!!

By Paul at 12:28 pm on Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Wow nothing too exciting to post other than First Trimester done and we are on the Second Trimester now.  Mira has had to go do more blood tests, ultrasound is setup for the first half of March.  Gyno says everything looks good.  I will post any news as it comes though.  We are more and more excited as eacg day goes by.

“Your baby’s face is beginning to look more human, even though she is only about 2 inches/5.5cms long from her crown to her rump and weighs slightly less than half an ounce/ 14 grams.” Please read more here or here.

Second Trimester here we come!!!

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My Babies Heart Beat!!

By Paul at 5:50 pm on Monday, February 8, 2010

I heard my babies heart beat today at the gyno’s..¬†

She used some hand held doppler device on my wifes tummy and we heard the swooshing heart beat for the first time today.

“Your baby is now fully formed, from toothbuds to toenails and measures about the length of your thumb.” Read more here.

I didn’t have a recording device with me to show you all, but I did find what a babies heart beat sounds like at 11 weeks here.

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Week 11 & Counting!!!

By Paul at 2:07 pm on Saturday, February 6, 2010

Well nothing too exciting to report for this week.  Except maybe that Mira is starting to show more of a baby bump now.

She has continued experiencing the dreaded “Morning Sickness”,¬† which I still don’t understand why they call “Morning Sickness”.¬† Mira has cravings for all kinds of foods now too,¬† McD’s fries and Cheesburgers¬†is one of them.

“Measuring from the crown of his head to his rump, your 1.5-inch/ 4-centimetre fetus has all his parts, from tooth buds to toenails. Your baby is busy kicking and stretching; his movements are so fluid they look like water ballet. Fingers and toes have fully separated.” Please read more here¬†or here.

We have an appointment with the Gyno on Monday the 8th,  I will post what we find out then in the next weeks update. I look forward to getting an ultra sound setup soon. wOOt!!


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Week 10 Update!!!

By Paul at 11:26 am on Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Wow! my baby has vital organs now..¬† This is too exciting, Baby Mudhar has a fully formed and functional brain.. well¬†I wonder what he is thinking¬† hehe. We have been getting a lot of people trying to guess the sex of the baby from “signs” they see, and hear about what Mira is going through. Will be interesting¬†if they are right, but with choosing¬†a boy or a¬†girl the choices are limited.

“The vital organs — the liver, kidneys, intestines, brain, and lungs — are fully formed and functional, while the head is almost half the length of the entire body. The forehead temporarily bulges and sits high on the head, but later will change into a more human-like feature.” Please read more here.

Maybe we should have some sort of Baby Pool going on..¬† and you can guess the Weight, Date and Time of Birth and why not the sex too. Leave a comment with your guesses¬† ūüôā

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Week 9 Update!!

By Paul at 12:55 pm on Wednesday, January 20, 2010

What a roller coaster of emotions Mira has been through this last week. One day feeling GREAT! doing some chores and back in the kitchen cooking, and also finding her appetite. To the next day just wanting to sleep or having aches and pains. I have been rubbing and massaging her aches away as best I can.

“At week’s end, your fetus measures approximately 0.9 inches / 2.3 centimetres long. In both shape and size, it resembles a pea-pod and weighs less than a tenth of an ounce / 2 grams.”¬† Read more here.

The sad part of her finding her appetite is, that she also found out what morning sickness is. Still haven’t figured out why they call it morning sickness though, As it happens at any time of the¬†day. We are hoping for a smooth completion of the first 3 months, and look forward to¬†healthy final months. We will be seeing the Doctor again the first week of February.

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Week 8

By Paul at 8:00 am on Wednesday, January 13, 2010

w00t!! Week 8 and counting.. 
I suppose this is an important week according to

“Congratulations — your embryo is now called a fetus, which means “offspring”. Your uterus expands to accommodate its new resident, which now measures approximately five-eights of an inch / 1.6 centimetres.” Please read more here.

Mira is having all the feelings associated with being pregnant now, from morning sickness (doesn’t always happen in the mornings though HAHA!!) to being tired when she lays down or sits up or stands too long, She craves everything but can’t have more than one bite before she is full¬†lol.

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About Me..

By Paul at 7:45 pm on Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Now that I have something to write about.. (My upcoming bundle of joy) I added and updated my About Me page. I never noticed the link I used to have just below the header picture went missing. So I went on a hunt for something I could add that would allow me to have an About Me Link on my main page and subsequent individule post pages too.

Updated “some” information and added a picture of My Wife Mira and I. (The upcoming mommy to be. hehe) I want to try and keep updates coming, even picture updates of Mira’s tummy getting bigger. So do look for updates as they happen.

ūüôā Thank you all for reading and being a part of our joy.


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Week 7…

By Paul at 2:10 pm on Wednesday, January 6, 2010

We have been to the Doctors now and he confirmed our test results.
Week 7 and things are going well. Mira has been showing some signs of morning sickness now and then.
She has been feeling tired and sleepy when she has been on her feet too long.

“Now about one half of an inch / 1.25 centimetres long, the size of a lentil. the embryo has distinct, slightly webbed fingers and toes. It’s a jumping bean, moving in fits and starts. The liver is churning out large amounts of red blood cells until the bone marrow forms and takes over this role.”

Please read more here.

We have already started thinking about names, and Mira wants it to be a surprise, But I want to know as soon as I can.

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Week 6….

By Paul at 10:48 pm on Friday, January 1, 2010

YES!! Mira and I are 6 weeks into becoming Parents. We personally tested and found out just last Sunday Dec 27th.

If all the due date and conception calculators we have found online are accurate. Conception would have been between Nov 28th-Dec 2nd 2009 We are expecting our bundle of joy by August 25th 2010 (Again assuming what we found online is accurate)

Appointments with doctors will be this upcoming weeks..

I will be keeping you all updated weekly or as often as I need to tell you all anything.. Have a read here till then.

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By Paul at 7:41 pm on Friday, October 2, 2009

I bet that may have gotten your attention… But I didn’t want to make a pre-mature¬† post about this.. and I still don’t know just how permanent it will be… but I’d like to share with you that I have been made the Graveyard Shift Charge Hand.. where I work.

I have been at A.I. Ind. since May 2006 and have learned a lot of different things and how they run their operations.¬† This position is special for me since I have just completed my apprenticeship just last April 2008. I have full control of the shift and make all decisions pertaining to who does what and setting up the next day shifts priorities. While it is a new position for me I hope to grow in my position and get more involved with the company’s day to day planning. Wish me luck in continuing with success, I may need just a little bit from everyone.

** On a side note my wife and I are doing great.  She and I have started on a strict regiment of healthy eating.  She has helped my mother, father, herself and I, lose inches and ponds off since about mid August 2009. I am happy to report I have lost about 25 lbs and many inches.. my wife has lost 15 pounds and even more inches.. **

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By Paul at 12:42 am on Thursday, January 1, 2009

WOW WOW WOW!!!¬† I can’t belive I didn’t post a thing in 2008…

I shall try to do some regular postings in the new year!!

I hope 2009 will be a Great one for EVERYONE!!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!  2009!!!!!!  WHOO  HOO!!!

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Indian Adventure update

By Paul at 9:03 pm on Sunday, January 27, 2008

Hello all..¬† There are a few of you wanting to hear about my story/adventure and I am sorry I haven’t posted it yet.. I am still in the process of completing it. I have had a hard time on how to start it..¬† what to include and what not to include in the post.

It is kind of frustrating as I know I should probably just post it as it happened, but that may be more confusing than interesting…¬† somewhat of a back story has to be done to fill in the parts that won’t make sense at first.¬† So¬†I ask¬†that you be patient and let me put it into words that will tell the whole story and yet leave out what won’t be needed. I will be changing some names to protect some individuals but all in all it will be as factual as I can make it.

I lived it and It’s really one of those “YOU HAD TO BE THERE” kind of stories to have it make any “real” sense to those of you that will just be reading about it…¬† again, I will be posting soon.

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